Everyone wants to know how long it takes to improve a marriage. In our microwave quick culture we all want fast results. The question is, do you want long-term results, or just any results. To get good long-term results the couple has to focus on the root cause of the problem. Today, common marriage advice […]
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Who do you turn to when your marriage needs help? In the past, counselors or pastors have been the only choices available. With the divorce rate at a consistent 45% for many decades, it is more important than ever to carefully look at who you are getting advice from. Today, with the internet, there are […]
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Divorce, the dissolution of marriage, has become commonplace. Children raised by divorced parents develop an expectancy of divorce in their life. Terms like “starter marriage” suggest marriage is a temporary institution. We need to ask the question why divorce is so high given all the resources and research available. In this article I offer three […]
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Porn often leads to divorce. Can the marriage survive, or even thrive after porn? Look at porn as a blessing, a way to re-create your marriage.
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Marriage coaching or marriage counseling? That is a critical question that married couples should ask when they want to improve the quality of their marriage. Up until recently, the only choices were counselor/therapist or pastor. Due to a massive increase in knowledge in the field of psychology and the understanding of human nature, a new […]
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Porn is often misunderstood. Many people think porn is just a behavior like going to the movies, watching football, or combing your hair. It leads to the worst advice anyone can give about porn. Porn is a lot more complex than most people think. In my comprehensive blog post called Porn – What You Need […]
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Porn destroys love. In this comprehensive article, I explore what porn does to a person, the damage it does to BOTH partners, and how to break free from porn.
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We all have emotional needs. When these needs are fulfilled we feel a special love. These emotional needs are similar to the 6 human needs. When our human needs are met, we feel happiness and a connection with another person. When our partner meets both sets of needs, a strong bond and romance result. These […]
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An angry spouse can be hard to live with. Anger can erupt when you least expect it. In this article I help you understand it and provide a strategy to resolve it. The internet is full of tips regarding anger management. Management of anger is not the answer. Resolving the anger in an angry spouse […]
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Marriage coaching helps you experience the marriage you want. Marriage coaching is not counseling or therapy. Marriage coaches focus on where you are now, identify and resolve the marriage problems, and help you move forward to where you want to be. As a certified coach in Strategic Interventions I educate individuals and couples on the […]
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