Your personal needs define who you are. Like the needs for food and water, you will do anything to have your personal needs met. In marriage, the two of you must meet each other’s needs if the marriage is to ...

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Everyone wants to know how long it takes to improve a marriage. In our microwave quick culture we all want fast results. The question is, do you want long-term results, or just any results? Common results average 600,000 to 1 ...

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Who do you turn to when your marriage needs help? In the past, counselors or pastors have been the only choices available. With annual divorces reaching as high as 1 million per year for many decades, it is more important ...

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Divorce, the dissolution of marriage, has become commonplace and part of the culture. Children raised by divorced parents develop an expectancy of divorce in their life. Terms like “starter marriage” suggest marriage is a temporary institution. We need to ask ...

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Porn kills marriages. The husband, successful in a career, is frustrated because all of his efforts to quit have so far failed. The wife, a good mother and loyal partner, feels betrayed and diminished. The marriage is on the rocks. ...

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Marriage coaching or marriage counseling? That is a critical question that married couples should ask when they want to improve the quality of their marriage. Up until recently, the only choices were counselor/therapist or pastor. Due to a massive increase ...

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Porn is often misunderstood. Many people think porn is just like any other habit or behavior. That belief leads to the worst advice anyone can give about porn. Porn is a lot more complex than most people think. In my ...

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Porn kills marriages. There is not a single study or research that indicates pornography builds a happy, long-term marriage. In this comprehensive article, I explore what porn does to a person, the damage it does to BOTH partners, and introduce ...

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Everyone has emotional needs. When these needs are fulfilled you feel a special love and connection. Emotional needs represent the middle tier of the 3 sets of personal needs: love, emotional, and human. These 3 sets of needs make up ...

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An angry spouse can be hard to live with. Anger can erupt when you least expect it. In this article I help you understand it and provide a strategy to resolve it. The internet is full of tips regarding anger ...

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