Your personal needs define who you are. Like the needs for food and water, you will do anything to have your personal needs met. In marriage, the two of you must meet each other’s needs if the marriage is to ...

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Everyone wants to know how long it takes to improve a marriage. In our microwave quick culture we all want fast results. The question is, do you want long-term results, or just any results? Common results average a 45% divorce ...

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Who do you turn to when your marriage needs help? In the past, counselors or pastors have been the only choices available. With the divorce rate at a consistent 45% for many decades, it is more important than ever to ...

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Divorce, the dissolution of marriage, has become commonplace. Children raised by divorced parents develop an expectancy of divorce in their life. Terms like “starter marriage” suggest marriage is a temporary institution. We need to ask the question why divorce is ...

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Porn often leads to divorce. Fifty-six percent of contested divorce cases cite porn as a major factor. Where the average cost for divorce is $15,500, porn is a costly addiction that leads to severe emotional stress and heartbreak. But does ...

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Marriage coaching or marriage counseling? That is a critical question that married couples should ask when they want to improve the quality of their marriage. Up until recently, the only choices were counselor/therapist or pastor. Due to a massive increase ...

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Porn is often misunderstood. Many people think porn is just a behavior like going to the movies, watching football, or combing your hair. It leads to the worst advice anyone can give about porn. Porn is a lot more complex ...

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Porn destroys love. There is not a single study or any research that indicates pornography builds a happy, long-term marriage. In this comprehensive article, I explore what porn does to a person, the damage it does to BOTH partners, and ...

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Everyone has emotional needs. When these needs are fulfilled you feel a special love and connection. Emotional needs represent the middle tier of the 3 sets of personal needs: love, emotional, and human. When your partner meets most of your ...

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An angry spouse can be hard to live with. Anger can erupt when you least expect it. In this article I help you understand it and provide a strategy to resolve it. The internet is full of tips regarding anger ...

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