you can have the love and affection you desire with a renewed marriage.

You can trust your partner again. You can have a deep connection, affection, love, and passion!

I teach the skills and strategies to help you achieve, and keep, the marriage you desire in one-on-one sessions by phone or video.

A Program Not Just Better, But Different!

Happy Marriage Coaching blends the best characteristics of Life Coaching, Strategic Interventions, and the best proven practices of top marriage experts. The result is a comprehensive, holistic, and sustainable approach to marriage improvement.

A Broken System Ending With Marriage Counseling / Therapy

  • Couples often get professional help only as a last resort
  • Waiting too long lowers the chances of marriage repair
  • One partner often resists counseling
  • Counselors often don't provide low cost services
  • Counselors often only provide in-office services
  • 25% to 38% still end in divorce
  • Counseling focuses on the past
  • Counseling focuses on problems
  • Counseling can take many years
  • Good for personality disorders
  • Good for mental health issues

happy marriage coaching programs offer an effective alternative!

Life Coaching

  • Goal focused 
  • See a positive future
  • Understand yourself better
  • Understand your partner better
  • Educational - Learn skills

Strategic Interventions

  • Gets to the root issues
  • Empowers the client
  • Works very quickly
  • Helps clients change behaviors
  • Focuses on skills and strategies

Expert Best Practices

  • Communications
  • Sex
  • Conflict resolution
  • Gender differences
  • Love and affection

Results to expect From Mark's Coaching Program

Individuals or couples who participate, and follow through, in Mark's Personal Marriage Coaching program experience many benefits.

Your partner will show you more and meaningful affection, in the way you desire to have affection.

Your partner will be more willing to have sex. It will be more intimate and emotional.

Intimate Conversations
Your partner will be interested in talking with you, hearing you, and connecting with you emotionally.

Your partner will show you respect and honor. They refrain from criticism. 

Honesty and Openness
Your partner will not hide anything. A new level of honesty and openness will be freely given.

Kind Words and Admiration
Your partner will say kind and admiring words to you and in front of others.

"I can help you take your marriage From where it is now, to where you want it to be.
My comprehensive and holistic approach
is much quicker than traditional marriage counseling."

Mark Jala

A Marriage in pain

There are many causes of marriage problems. Whether they are foundational, moderate, or serious challenges, some combination of the following may exist in the marriage relationship: 

  • A partner may cheat.
  • A partner may watch porn.
  • A partner may care more about themselves with little regard for the other partner.
  • Partners may criticize one another with harsh and personal attacks.
  • A partner may make selfish demands upon the other partner.
  • There is a lack of honesty and openness between the couple.
  • The couple acts independently of each other without regard for the partner.
  • A partner may develop annoying habits that angers the other partner.
  • Partners may show disrespect towards one another in private and in public.
  • Partners may have trouble talking with one another without one getting angry or defensive.

Living in a stressful Marriage

Married couple fighting

A troubled marriage is stressful. There is a hurt that goes deep down to our core and makes it hard to breathe sometimes. When boundaries are crossed, trust is lost. You don’t know if you can believe what your partner is saying. Fear grips you and makes you have doubts about the future. 

You try to make things work by giving more. You’ve given so much you don’t know if you have anything left to give.  You try to talk about the problems, but your partner doesn’t want to, perhaps even leaving the room. You often feel like a roommate with your partner instead of a spouse. 

Meet Your Coach

Mark Jala

Hello, my name is Mark Jala. I’m a certified coach in Strategic Interventions. I help couples create the marriage they desire. I blend the best features of life coaching, Strategic Interventions, and the best practices of top marriage experts into a results-oriented coaching experience like no other.

I developed a new research-based coaching program that helps couples Renew the Marriage, Reignite the Love in their marriage, and Heal Emotional Damage.

Most counselors treat marriage problems by focusing exclusively on the problems, and trying to figure out what happened in the past to cause those problems. In a long, time-consuming and expensive process, the couple may feel better towards one another, but the marriage is still damaged, and the root cause of the issues are still not addressed.

My Personal Marriage Coaching Program is different. I work with you where you are right now and help you create the marriage you desire.  My holistic approach addresses the root causes of the issues by focusing on the behaviors that help couples connect with one another.

Why Mark's coaching Program Works

Unlike the traditional approach many couples take, Mark's approach to marriage repair is based on new research and techniques proven to work

  • Mark's Passion Tripod Method walks you step-by-step to re-creating the marriage you want. In 3 simple steps you can have meaningful connection and love with your partner.
  • As a certified coach in Strategic Interventions, Mark uses strategies that get to the root causes of the issues, and develop a simple step-by-step plan of action. This provides the best long-term results with a minimal chance of the problems recurring.
  • Mark takes a holistic approach to coaching. True happiness extends beyond your marriage. As you go through the coaching program, you will learn how to be happier with yourself, your partner, your friends, and in life.  
  • Mark's strategies are aided by the best practices of top marriage experts like Dr. John Gottman, Dr. John Gray, Dr. Willard Harley, Jr., Cloe Madanes, Tony Robbins, Dr. Greg Baer, Dr. Emmerson Eggerichs, Dr. Gary Chapman, and more.
Happy Marriage Coaching

how Mark's Coaching Program Works
his passion tripod method

Passion Tripod Methos

Mark's Passion Tripod Method was developed after extensive research into both what is proven to work and avoid what has failed for so long. It is a simple 3-step process Mark walks clients through in developing the marriage they truly desire. It takes all 3 for the marriage to stand strong.

  1. 1
    Rebuild a Solid Marriage Foundation - Every happy marriage has a solid foundation where  partners connect with each other, think about solutions instead of problems, and meet each other's 3 sets of fundamental needs.  
  2. 2
    Practice What Works - It isn't rocket science, but it does take special knowledge, and consistent practice. Mark coaches both what to do and what to avoid. 
  3. 3
    Create a Sustainable Marriage - The happiness and love has to endure. There are specific things the wife needs and specific things the husband needs for the happy marriage to last a lifetime. Learn and practice the principles of enduring love, affection, and passion.

How to start the Coaching program

How much coaching a couple needs depends on the situation. There is no "one size fits all."

In general, Mark has found that couples with foundational to moderate problems can be best served with 6 marriage coaching sessions.

Those with moderate to severe marriage problems can be best served with 12 coaching sessions.

Mark's Personal Coaching program is flexible. Every session is designed to meet your needs where you are right now. Mark's job as the coach is to pick up on those needs and get to the root of the challenges. This is why his coaching sessions are 1-hour long to assure adequate time.

By the end of the coaching, you will have what you need to create the marriage you desire! 

Mark works with individuals or couples.

Coaching sessions are available as individual sessions, or packages of 6 or 12 coaching sessions. Mark recommends weekly sessions. Coaching sessions are 1-hour long and conducted over the phone or with Skype video.

You Can Have an Awesome Marriage

Given how things are right now, it might be hard to imagine being happy. You are here now on this page looking for answers. You want things to change and I believe you are willing to take the necessary actions to make it happen. 

I honor you for your efforts. Acknowledging a stressful marriage is not easy, but you did it. You have done something those still in denial have not been able to do. 

I want to help you. My Personal Marriage Coaching program may be what you are looking for. It offers a personal touch, guidance, instruction, and motivation, all done through the website and by Skype video or phone calls. It is the quickest and most effective coaching program available for couples with moderate to severe issues. It focuses on where you want your marriage to be,  and various strategies to achieve long-term happiness. 

Married Couple


Does this program require both husband and wife to participate?

Is this a Christian or faith-based program?

Why does the program appear to cost so much?

Do we have to do this program in consecutive weeks?

Do you guarantee the program will work?

Can I quit/get my money back?

It's time to renew your marriage

The people who join my Personal Marriage Coaching Program are dedicated to their marriage. 

  • With my coaching, you can see a bright future in your marriage. 
  • With my action plans, you will know what to do. Even if challenges reappear, you have a step-by-step-plan. 
  • With my email support, you can contact me during the coaching period, to share a great story, or have a question answered. 
  • You get the education, strategies, motivation, and more, to overcome your marital challenges, and live the marriage you desire. 

Limited Number of Clients

I can only serve 30 Coaching clients at one time. That is only 10 new clients a month. I take my coaching very seriously and do not want to give less than 100% attention. Too much is at stake. With 1 coaching call per week, preparation, follow-up, support, and my other coaching programs, I simply cannot serve more than 10 new Personal Coaching clients per month.

My Goal for Your marriage (and What I Want)

My goal for you is to have a life-long marriage full of love, respect, and emotional connection. 

Sometimes I get asked why I do marriage coaching. The answer is simple – I care. I see what divorce does to couples and to children. When I coach, there are things that I want:  

  • I want you to have a whole new mind-blowing understanding of who you are and who your partner is. This understanding can be a game changer in your marriage. 
  • I want you to have an inner happiness that takes pressure off of the expectations of the marriage and your partner. 
  • I want to see you on the path where you can self-direct your marriage happiness and not need my services. 
  • I want you to have a marriage that is so awesome, it is so much better than anything you ever dreamed about.