you can have the love and affection you desire with a renewed marriage.
You can trust your partner again. You can have a deep connection, affection, love, and passion!
I teach the skills and strategies to help you achieve, and keep, the marriage you desire in one-on-one sessions by phone or video.
A Program Not Just Better, But Different!
Happy Marriage Coaching blends the best characteristics of Life Coaching, Strategic Interventions, and the best proven practices of top marriage experts. The result is a comprehensive, holistic, and sustainable approach to marriage improvement.
A Broken System Ending With Marriage Counseling / Therapy
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Results to expect From Mark's Coaching Program
Individuals or couples who participate, and follow through, in Mark's Personal Marriage Coaching program experience many benefits.
Your partner will show you more and meaningful affection, in the way you desire to have affection.
Your partner will be more willing to have sex. It will be more intimate and emotional.
Your partner will be interested in talking with you, hearing you, and connecting with you emotionally.
Your partner will show you respect and honor. They refrain from criticism.
Honesty and Openness
Your partner will not hide anything. A new level of honesty and openness will be freely given.
Kind Words and Admiration
Your partner will say kind and admiring words to you and in front of others.
"I can help you take your marriage From where it is now, to where you want it to be.
My comprehensive and holistic approach
is much quicker than traditional marriage counseling."
A Marriage in pain
There are many causes of marriage problems. Whether they are foundational, moderate, or serious challenges, some combination of the following may exist in the marriage relationship:
Living in a stressful Marriage
A troubled marriage is stressful. There is a hurt that goes deep down to our core and makes it hard to breathe sometimes. When boundaries are crossed, trust is lost. You don’t know if you can believe what your partner is saying. Fear grips you and makes you have doubts about the future.
You try to make things work by giving more. You’ve given so much you don’t know if you have anything left to give. You try to talk about the problems, but your partner doesn’t want to, perhaps even leaving the room. You often feel like a roommate with your partner instead of a spouse.
Meet Your Coach
Hello, my name is Mark Jala. I’m a certified coach in Strategic Interventions. I help couples create the marriage they desire. I blend the best features of life coaching, Strategic Interventions, and the best practices of top marriage experts into a results-oriented coaching experience like no other.
I developed a new research-based coaching program that helps couples Renew the Marriage, Reignite the Love in their marriage, and Heal Emotional Damage.
Most counselors treat marriage problems by focusing exclusively on the problems, and trying to figure out what happened in the past to cause those problems. In a long, time-consuming and expensive process, the couple may feel better towards one another, but the marriage is still damaged, and the root cause of the issues are still not addressed.
My Personal Marriage Coaching Program is different. I work with you where you are right now and help you create the marriage you desire. My holistic approach addresses the root causes of the issues by focusing on the behaviors that help couples connect with one another.
Why Mark's coaching Program Works
Unlike the traditional approach many couples take, Mark's approach to marriage repair is based on new research and techniques proven to work.
how Mark's Coaching Program Works
his passion tripod method
Mark's Passion Tripod Method was developed after extensive research into both what is proven to work and avoid what has failed for so long. It is a simple 3-step process Mark walks clients through in developing the marriage they truly desire. It takes all 3 for the marriage to stand strong.
- 1Rebuild a Solid Marriage Foundation - Every happy marriage has a solid foundation where partners connect with each other, think about solutions instead of problems, and meet each other's 3 sets of fundamental needs.
- 2Practice What Works - It isn't rocket science, but it does take special knowledge, and consistent practice. Mark coaches both what to do and what to avoid.
- 3Create a Sustainable Marriage - The happiness and love has to endure. There are specific things the wife needs and specific things the husband needs for the happy marriage to last a lifetime. Learn and practice the principles of enduring love, affection, and passion.
How to start the Coaching program
How much coaching a couple needs depends on the situation. There is no "one size fits all."
In general, Mark has found that couples with foundational to moderate problems can be best served with 6 marriage coaching sessions.
Those with moderate to severe marriage problems can be best served with 12 coaching sessions.
Mark's Personal Coaching program is flexible. Every session is designed to meet your needs where you are right now. Mark's job as the coach is to pick up on those needs and get to the root of the challenges. This is why his coaching sessions are 1-hour long to assure adequate time.
By the end of the coaching, you will have what you need to create the marriage you desire!
Mark works with individuals or couples.
Coaching sessions are available as individual sessions, or packages of 6 or 12 coaching sessions. Mark recommends weekly sessions. Coaching sessions are 1-hour long and conducted over the phone or with Skype video.
You Can Have an Awesome Marriage
Given how things are right now, it might be hard to imagine being happy. You are here now on this page looking for answers. You want things to change and I believe you are willing to take the necessary actions to make it happen.
I honor you for your efforts. Acknowledging a stressful marriage is not easy, but you did it. You have done something those still in denial have not been able to do.
I want to help you. My Personal Marriage Coaching program may be what you are looking for. It offers a personal touch, guidance, instruction, and motivation, all done through the website and by Skype video or phone calls. It is the quickest and most effective coaching program available for couples with moderate to severe issues. It focuses on where you want your marriage to be, and various strategies to achieve long-term happiness.
Does this program require both husband and wife to participate?
No. It is best to have both the husband and wife participate. In many cases, one partner is acting solo with an uncooperative spouse. That is OK. Whether you come together or solo, you will go through a coaching experience that will benefit your marriage and help you achieve your desired results.
Is this a Christian or faith-based program?
No. Mark is a Christian. He makes sure nothing he teaches, or coaches, goes against Christian principles. Mark does not call it a faith-based program because he did not validate all parts of the program with Biblical scripture. If you are familiar with his email newsletter or Facebook page, you know he does reference scripture on occasion. Mark believes that having a relationship with God does help in marriage. He does not require clients to be believers, nor does he push a Christian agenda in his coaching.
Why does the program appear to cost so much?
The cost may sound like a lot, but did you know the average cost for a contested divorce is $15,500? The average divorce also takes an average 10.7 months of stress, frustration, and a lot of emotional pain. Going to a medical doctor can cost a lot with deductibles, co-pays, and co-insurance, but we still see a good quality doctor because our health is important. We don't hunt for the cheapest doctor. Mark believes a marriage is also important. It is why he coaches husbands how to connect with their wife, couples how to reignite the love in their marriage, and wives how to live happily with their husband. Mark can do this for you. The program is based on solid research of what works and to avoid the failures of the current system. Personal Coaching is a unique program, and when you consider all that is included, Mark is sure you will see the abundant value of the program.
Do we have to do this program in consecutive weeks?
As much as possible. There is science behind the coaching program. Progress and momentum are critical to the success of all tracks. Mark understands that regardless of the best intentions, life can get in the way. Mark is also not available all 52 weeks of the year. Taking a week break once or twice in the course of the program is perfectly fine.
Do you guarantee the program will work?
Mark cannot guarantee the program will work because he is not the one doing all the work. While Mark provides the instruction and coaching, the husband and wife have critical work to do. If either party does not do the tasks or exercises, the likelihood of success diminishes. Mark finds that when a couple does all the work diligently, the program works for them.
Can I quit/get my money back?
Yes, of course. Mark understands that unexpected expenses can disrupt a budget, or that you may find that the program is just not for you. Let Mark know at least 24 hours before any scheduled coaching call and the unused portion of your payment will be refunded. No questions asked. You get to keep all materials and gifts.
It's time to renew your marriage
The people who join my Personal Marriage Coaching Program are dedicated to their marriage.
Limited Number of Clients
I can only serve 30 Coaching clients at one time. That is only 10 new clients a month. I take my coaching very seriously and do not want to give less than 100% attention. Too much is at stake. With 1 coaching call per week, preparation, follow-up, support, and my other coaching programs, I simply cannot serve more than 10 new Personal Coaching clients per month.
My Goal for Your marriage (and What I Want)
My goal for you is to have a life-long marriage full of love, respect, and emotional connection.
Sometimes I get asked why I do marriage coaching. The answer is simple – I care. I see what divorce does to couples and to children. When I coach, there are things that I want: