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Porn Kills Marriages

Porn is a gateway to divorce. It changes the husband, emotionally wounds the wife, and breaks the ties of marriage.

Is your marriage in trouble?
The research is clear. 

  • 1
    Porn weakens commitment.  Several studies concluded that pornography weakens commitment to the partner. It replaces sexual thoughts and energies for wives with those of porn actors. Porn is a gateway to divorce.
  • 2
    Porn is a destructive addiction. When men watch porn, they behave similarly to men with heroin addiction. The cravings. The need-shame cycle. The lack of control. Like heroin, porn puts men in a serious state of conflict.
  • 3
    Porn leads to erectile dysfunction (ED). Doctors find that the compulsive nature of porn leads to erectile dysfunction (ED). The over-stimulation creates changes in the brain, making husbands less responsive to the physical pleasures
    of his wife. Porn damages men emotionally AND physically.
  • 4
    Wives feel betrayed. Anger and mistrust are words often used by wives when they discover their husband watches porn. She feels insecure, less self-esteem, and emotional & physical pain. Wives are emotionally wounded.
  • 5
    Wives experience PTSD. Almost 70% of wives facing such emotional betrayal display the characteristics of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). These include nightmares, obsessive thinking, fear, worry, depression, and trouble sleeping. Wives require emotional recovery.

"He Promised to Stop!"

"I lost my husband, my kids lost the man they call dad. My family will never be the same. My marriage is over. Porn killed it. Because he chose porn. Tonight, I held my daughters as they sobbed so hard they could barely breathe. Crying out inaudible words mixed with some really raw ones. 'He promised to stop, he said we were worth fighting for, my dad is gone, he’s just gone,' they cried." - Fight the New Drug

Why Common treatments don't work

Many men silently live with it as a secret, trying over and over again to stop. Relapse is common with porn addiction. There are three conventional treatments.

  1. 1
    The most common approach is where husbands see a counselor. After a long time and a much money spent, the husband may be free from his addiction, but the marriage is still in turmoil, and the wife is still emotionally wounded. Relapse is common.
  2. 2
    Another common approach is to use porn filters or monitoring on all digital devices, similar to Covenant Eyes. This approach is a key component of an integrated solution, but again, only address the husband's porn addiction. The marriage is in distress.
  3. 3
    Finally, the most common advice is what wives tell their husbands, which is just stop. Quit cold-turkey. Unfortunately such advice does not work because of the complexity of porn addiction, and again, only addresses the addiction. Wives continue to suffer emotional trauma.

Porn is Really THREE problems, not Just One

Even after the discovery and common treatment for porn, many marriages still fail.  All the problems are not addressed. The reality is - PORN is THREE problems, not just one. Unless all 3 problems are addressed, the marriage remains in trouble.

The 3 problems

  1. 1
    The Husband's Addiction - The husband needs treatment for his addiction. There are triggers and urges he must learn how to handle. He also needs to train his brain to develop new neural pathways that link love and intimacy to his wife. BOTH must be achieved for long-term success.
  2. 2
    The Marriage - Porn crushes the foundation of marriage. There is often little trust. There were too many secrets. Your marriage needs renewal. BOTH husband and wife need to work together to see a new and brighter future together, with honesty and a vision for a happy future together.
  3. 3
    The Wife's Emotional Wounds - Wives are emotionally injured, also. Almost 70% of wives facing a husband's porn addiction experience characteristics of PTSD. Her emotional wounds require healing. The right specialist has the tools and techniques to empower a wife to heal.

"Thousands of Dollars"

"My husband, the sweet guy who made me weak in the knees, would come back when the porn left. But the porn kept coming back, each time things would get worse rapidly. Thousands of dollars and countless hours on therapy and support groups, and this pattern of clean for a few months followed by a relapse lasting twice as long, for years."  - Fight the New Drug

"The only successful way to treat porn in a marriage is to address all 3 problems at the same time."
- Mark Jala

For Wives

You may feel loss, shame, anger, pain, and betrayal. Your husband is looking at pictures and videos of other women. Emotionally, he's not connecting with you. 

 

Your emotions are all over the place. You can go from depression to rage quickly. As a result, the smallest things can trigger deep pain and emotional outbursts.

Marriage Trouble

"How can he do this to me?" "Why am I not enough?"


His behavior is affecting you physically. Maybe you're not eating regularly. You swing from binge eating to hardly eating at all. You may even feel physical pain at the thought of him watching porn, perhaps a burning sensation on your hands.


These feelings and emotions are natural. It's OK to feel what you're feeling, as long as they are temporary.

Your life is currently in turmoil. You didn’t ask for any of this. The hard reality is your husband has a dangerous addiction. It threatens himself, your marriage, and your happiness. He has a hard time controlling his actions.


Your husband needs your help. He cannot recover by himself. He needs your understanding and encouragement. Your strength, standing by him and supporting him, along with the right outside expert, can help him break free from his addiction.


However, this isn’t just about him. You are in pain. The man you love hurt you deeply. Just as he needs to break free from his addiction, you also need healing. An outside expert specializing in porn addiction in marriage can help you.


This expert can help you understand your negative feelings and turn them into empowering forces

  • You can turn pain into strength
  • You can freely recognize and express your needs
  • You can carry yourself with dignity and self-respect
Happy Wife

You may not have thought of it this way, but his addiction can be a blessing in disguise. It gives you a chance to redesign your marriage.


When you and your husband get expert help individually, you can also renew your marriage together. Imagine the possibilities! You can reignite your love with consistent, loving behaviors that strengthen your love for each other.


All of this is possible with the right outside specialist and training. A qualified coach can work with you so you can heal, and together so the marriage can heal. The good news is both are available right now!

For Husbands

It's not uncommon for men to have watched porn for many years. Many married men keep it a secret. Some don't even remember when they started. 


Some men report looking at porn as an escape from sexual abuse when a child. For others, it was a teenage right of passage to sneak a peek at Playboy. Others have recently started as a coping mechanism for a stressful life situation.


No matter how it started or when, it is harming your marriage. 


You may have tried quitting many times. It just doesn’t seem to work. No matter what you do, you find yourself drawn back into it.

Porn

Inside you carry a severe conflict. You love your wife, but you're hurting her. You tell yourself your feelings for her haven't changed.


However, the reality is different.


Porn has changed you. It weakens your commitment to your wife. It trains you to treat women as objects. Porn also changes men emotionally and physically, giving many men Erectile Dysfunction (ED).


The truth is you're hurting your wife more than you know. She senses the weakened commitment. She feels you look at her as an object. Lovemaking is about sex, not intimacy anymore. She knows you changed. 


Porn is a form of emotional cheating. Your actions cause your wife great emotional pain.  


 - You are physically treating her differently than in the past
 - You give her immense stress
 - Your actions create in her thoughts of betrayal, insecurity, and doubt about the marriage


You need to understand - Porn is a gateway to divorce. It's a primary reason cited in 56% of divorces. Your addiction has put your marriage in jeopardy.

You have to do more than try to stop. It is time to decide to succeed; To break free once and for all.


Despite the challenges you face and the pain the addiction causes your wife, there's good news!


You can be free from porn. You can mend the relationship with your wife. You can have a marriage with respect and admiration again.


Again, It’s a matter of getting the right outside expert, a qualified coach specializing in this specific kind of training. ​​​​


When you start this program, with the right certified coach, you learn how to resist the inevitable urges and triggers that may have caused lapses in the past.

Happy Couple

Finally, there is a program with a supporting coach available to you right now! 

How to Break Free From Porn

You can participate in an all-new program developed by Mark Jala. It is a game changer in how porn addiction in marriage is treated. Mr. Jala's program is based on the actual science and underlying psychology behind porn addiction, marriage recovery, and emotional recovery.


This program counters the failures of today's common treatment methods. To completely eliminate porn, renew the marriage, and emotionally heal, requires a triple-track approachBreaking Free, Reignite the Love, and Emotional Healing. This is the most comprehensive program available for long-term success.

Breaking Free

Breaking Free

Breaking Free is a proven, 6 step process that trains the husband to be aware of and resist urges and triggers. This 6-step process is the same methodology often used to help addicts get off of drugs, alcohol, tobacco, and other addictive substances. Additionally, learn how to develop a new mindset that bonds you closer to your wife.

Reignite the Love

Reignite the Love

Reignite the Love is an online coaching program helping both husband and wife create the marriage they desire. Through 3 simple steps both partners learn how easy it is to meet the needs of their partner, create regular habits that build connection, and how to sustain a happy marriage long term.

Emotional Healing

Emotional Healing

Emotional Healing is dedicated one-one-one coaching with the wife to help her on her healing journey. Learn how to change depressing memories and feelings. Discover how to overcome feelings of betrayal, inadequacy, uncertainty, and related emotional pain. 

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The Triple-Track Approach

This unique and effective program is designed to address the specific needs of porn addiction in marriage. It addresses the special needs of the husband, marriage, and wife. Here are the 3 tracks:

 1

In the Breaking Free track, the husband will learn and practice:

  • How to re-program your brain to avoid common triggers.
  • 10 urge-busters.
  • The #1 reason why porn is hard to overcome.
  • The damage he caused his wife, and why he MUST stop viewing porn.
  • 6 proven steps to eliminating the desire to view porn.
  • Discover the real reason why he started watching porn.
  • Why trying to quit “cold-turkey” doesn’t work.
  • Fall in true love with your wife again – mind and body.
  • What he should NEVER do during the 90-day program.
  • What to do when unexpected urges and triggers happen – because they will!

 2

In the Reignite the Love track, BOTH partners will discover:

  • The #1 key to being happy while you work on your marriage.
  • 2 easy changes you can start making today that helps avoid conflict and arguments.
  • Why the 6 human and 10 emotional needs MUST be met in order to have a happy marriage.
  • How the 80/20 principle hurt your marriage.
  • If she starts to get angry, what he needs to do first!
  • How to consistently show love to your partner.
  • How she needs to consistently show respect to her husband.
  • When you both start practicing CANI, the marriage can weather great storms.
  • If you have a hard time forgiving, here’s the #1 thing to do.
  • The 10 best practices of happily married couples.

 3

In the Emotional Healing track, the wife will discover:

  • How to re-write memories that cause you pain and stress.
  • How to forgive while maintaining self-respect and dignity.
  • The single best way to rebuild your self-esteem and value.
  • How to develop a network of other woman to share your feelings and release stress.
  • Learn how to accept your past mistakes and commit to doing better.
  • Use journaling to express your feelings without guilt or condemnation.
  • How to challenge your existing belief system and adapt it to who you are today.
  • How to maintain dignity and grace even when facing challenges.
  • Learn how raising your standards can improve your life and your marriage.

Everything You Get

  • 90-Day Program – See results in your marriage quickly. In just 3 months, you can feel real love and intimacy with your partner.
  • 12 Weekly Coaching Sessions – Weekly sessions provide a goal-oriented progression to your porn free and happy marriage. You can feel and see measurable progress each week.
  • 1-Hour Coaching Sessions – One-hour sessions gives ample time to immerse yourself into the coaching experience. Each session will unveil “a-ha” moments and “sparks” to enact positive changes.
  • 6 Months of Email Coaching – Have a question in the middle of the night? No problem. Use the provided coaching email address to share a thought, ask a question, or get an answer to a challenge. Mr. Jala personally answer emails within 24 hours, 6 days a week.
  • Triple-Track Program – Break Free from Porn is the most  comprehensive program available for long term success. It addresses porn addiction, marriage issues, and emotional damage. Feel the love and intimacy you once had, with a feeling of accomplishment, knowing you and your husband solved a major divorce-causing issue by working together.
  • Breaking Free – The husband is walked through a proven, research-based 6-step process to overcome the triggers and urges associated with porn. The husband can have confidence it will work, and he can once again be attracted to his wife more than ever.
  • Entire Reignite the Love Program – The marriage renews in 3 simple steps that include 17 educational lessons and 60-plus coaching exercises. Feel safe and secure in your marriage when you use the best practices of happily married couples. Feel an abundance of love as you and your husband meet each other’s needs. You’ll feel closer to your husband when you both learn how to manage conflict.
  • Emotional Healing - You do not have to be haunted by the betrayal. Learn how to channel hurtful emotions into strength and freedom.
  • Just Added - Lifetime Online Private Support Group - Both husband and wife can share their successes and challenges with other participants in the program. You are not alone. 
Happy Marriage

Meet the Specialist and Your Coach

Mark Jala

You can completely eliminate porn in your marriage, heal emotionally from feelings of betrayal, and your marriage can be renewed stronger than ever. Hello, my name is Mark Jala. For almost 40 years I have been a problem solver in multiple fields. The skills I developed over the years can transform your marriage.


As a certified coach in Strategic Interventions I help couples get to the root cause of their marriage troubles. I blend the best features of life coaching, Strategic Interventions, and the best practices of top marriage experts into a results-oriented coaching experience like no other.


More than 50% of couples I interact with report porn in their marriage. Porn is a gateway to divorce. It harms both partners. I had to do something about it.

Over the last 5 years I came to understand not just the complex problem of porn, but the failures of common treatments. Porn addiction creates 3 problems and all 3 problems must be addressed. I developed a new, innovative program that addresses all 3 parts of the problem. 


I want you to experience the many benefits of this new program. 

  • Imagine finally being free from porn
  • Imagine being free from the anger and stress of feeling betrayed
  • Imagine intimacy and love better than you ever thought possible

THAT is what this new program can do for you, your partner, and your marriage. I welcome you to Break Free today! 

FAQs

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Why It's Time to Start Now

Mark only brings on 10 new clients each month. Since the Break Free from Porn program spans across 3 months, he is limited in how many clients he can serve. When you are ready to transform your marriage, Mark recommends that you click on the Start Now button.


If you have some questions before starting, click on the Schedule a Pre-Coaching Q&A Call. Mark will call you at the scheduled time for a 20-minute Q&A session.  

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The Value of The Break Free From Porn Program

Eliminate porn and revitalize the intimacy in your marriage

1

Breaking Free

  • Six (6) 1-hour sessions
  • Just with the husband
  • Proven 6-step process

$1,500 value

2

Reignite the Love

  • Three (3) 1-hour sessions
  • With BOTH husband and Wife
  • All Lessons Downloadable

$1,200 value

3

Emotional Healing

  • Three (3) 1-hour sessions
  • Just with the wife
  • Get rid of limiting emotions

$750 value

4

All Sessions Downloadable

  • Unlimited Replay
  • Don't Miss Anything
  • Repeat the Exercises

$1,200 value

5

6 Months of Email Support

  • 3 Month Program + 3 More FREE
  • Continued Support
  • Answered by Mark Jala

$105 value

NEW!

6

Lifetime Private Online Support

  • Break Free From Porn Support
  • Share with Other Participants
  • Benefits BOTH Partners

$ Priceless

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