Happy Marriage Coaching

Eliminate Porn And Restore Your Marriage in Just 90 Days

Introducing a proven, research-based coaching program that can make your marriage better and stronger than ever!

Porn

It is too common. The husband is caught watching porn. The wife feels angry and betrayed. She wonders why she isn't enough for him. The marriage is shaken. 


Stop!  Breathe.

 

In 90 days, you could have a renewed marriage. He can break free from the bondage of porn. Both can have intimacy and love again. Trust can be restored.


The Break Free From Porn Coaching Program is a dual-track program that works with the husband to eliminate porn, and both partners to renew the marriage.

Porn Destroys Marriages

56% of divorce cases list pornography as a major factor in the divorce. The average cost of a contested divorce is $10,500. Men watch porn 543% more than women. 


Called the Triple-A Engine, porn is available, affordable, and anonymous. Over 40,000 websites offer porn. 90% of porn uses watch for free. Viewers watch in secret with modern browsers that can delete their viewing history.


Studies show that porn affects the viewer much like alcohol, drugs, or tobacco. When watching porn, the brain releases several chemicals that “burn in” images into a neural superhighway, making porn irresistible. This process is called neuroplasticity. Brain chemicals like Dopamine, Norepinephrine, Oxytocin, and Vasopressin make quitting cold-turkey nearly impossible.


Porn watching is associated with increased risk of infidelity, separation, and divorce. A 2012 synopsis of 5 studies concluded "the more pornography consumed is associated with a weakened commitment to one’s relationship partner."


A medical side effect is that many men become so habituated to pornography that they experience erectile dysfunction (ED) or impotence. Dr. Judith Reisman describes the medical effects as being “castrated visually.”

The research on pornography is clear. 

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    Watching porn decreases sexual satisfaction, training men to view sex as a commodity, not as intimacy.
  • 2
    Watching porn disconnect men from real relationships. Marriage is devalued. Faithfulness is devalued. 
  • 3
    Women become objects, dehumanized, and devalued. A real naked woman is considered bad porn. Support for women's rights drops by 46%.
  • 4
    Porn makes viewers more accepting of aggression, cruelty, anal sex, group sex, sadomasochism, bestiality, and even rape.
  • 5
    Porn makes the watcher want more porn. Porn is intoxicating, making it a compulsion for the viewer.

Introducing the Break Free from Porn Coaching Program

Mr. Jala's coaching program is based on the science behind porn addiction and the failures of common treatment. The brain’s neuroplasticity depends on the “use it or lose it” dynamic. Using this dynamic to our advantage, the porn neural superhighway can be collapsed and replaced with a new superhighway based on love and intimacy with the wife.

Break Free from Porn

The program starts with 2 prerequisites. 


First, abstain from all sex for 30 days. This helps break down the porn neural superhighway and helps create a new neural superhighway for intimacy with the wife.


Second, use the Covenant Eyes app. This app applies porn filtering and accountability reports. It's an effective way to start the process of eliminating porn from your marriage.


To fully eliminate porn and renew the marriage requires a dual-track approachBreak Free from Porn and Reignite the Love.


Break Free from Porn is a proven, research-based 6 step process that trains the husband to be aware of and resist urges and triggers. This 6-step process is the same process often used to help addicts get off of drugs, alcohol, tobacco, and other addictive substances.


Reignite the Love is an online coaching program helping couples create the marriage they desire. Through a simple 3-step process, both partners experience over 60 coaching exercises providing valuable "a-ha" moments, helping to understand and value each other. 


As a dual track program, the husband becomes free from the shackles of porn, and the marriage is revitalized, made stronger, and happier than ever.

Features and Benefits

  • 90-Day Program – See results in your marriage quickly. In just 3 months, you can feel real love and intimacy with your husband.
  • 12 Weekly Coaching Sessions – Weekly sessions provide a goal-oriented progression to your porn free and happy marriage. You can feel and see measurable progress each week.
  • 1-Hour Coaching Sessions – One-hour sessions gives ample time to immerse yourself into the coaching experience. Each session will unveil “a-ha” moments and “sparks” to enact positive changes.
  • 6 Months of Email Coaching – Have a question in the middle of the night? No problem. Use the provided coaching email address to share a thought, ask a question, or get an answer to a challenge. Mr. Jala personally answer emails within 24 hours, 6 days a week.
  • Dual Track Program – Break Free from Porn is a comprehensive program that addresses both the porn addiction and marriage issues. Feel the love and intimacy you once had, with a feeling of accomplishment, knowing you and your husband solved a major divorce-causing issue by working together.
  • 6 Steps to Porn-Free – The husband is walked through a proven, research-based 6-step process to overcome the triggers and urges associated with porn. The husband can have confidence it will work, and he can once again be attracted to his wife more than ever.
  • Entire Reignite the Love Program – The marriage renews with 17 educational lessons and 60-plus coaching exercises. Feel safe and secure in your marriage when you use the best practices of happily married couples. Feel an abundance of love as you and your husband meet each other’s human and emotional needs. You’ll feel closer to your husband when you both learn how to manage conflict.
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For the Wife...

A good quality marriage does not have a husband looking at porn. It may be difficult to accept, but your husband was drawn to porn as an escape or way to fulfill a need he was not getting from the marriage. Unfortunately, he made a poor choice to meet his needs by watching porn. Affairs often start the same way, meeting an unfulfilled need.

Men want love and intimacy, too. Men want to be happy in their marriage. Men want to see a great future where he and his wife are connected and close.


Your husband is the same way! 

Your husband wants to feel loved.

Your husband wants to feel needed and respected.


Too often, when men do not get the love they need, they settle for a connection, even if it is with a digital or video character. 

Happy Couple Sunset

Men who watch porn often know, deep down, that it is horrible for the marriage. They try to keep it a secret and feel shame when they are caught. A natural reaction is to deny it, even if the denial makes matters worse. Since most men have a hard time talking about their feelings and emotions, anger from the wife corners him, leaving him thinking he has to fight or stonewall.

Neither choice helps the marriage.

Any man trying to convince himself that porn is OK or normal will soon see how difficult it is to not view porn. The addictive nature of porn makes such a withdrawal difficult. This is why trying to quit cold-turkey rarely, if ever, works.

Men have dreams and desires just as women do. They want love and intimacy. They want great sex. They need respect and admiration, even when they don't deserve it, just as the wife needs love and affection, even when she doesn't deserve it.

Your husband needs you.

He needs to see a future where his needs are met without porn.

He needs your love and patience to break free from porn.

It takes a 100% commitment from both of you to help him through this difficult time.

Meet Your Coach

Hello, my name is Mark Jala. I’m a certified coach in Strategic Interventions. I help couples create the marriage they desire. I blend the best features of life coaching, Strategic Interventions, and the best practices of top marriage experts into a results-oriented coaching experience like no other.


I developed a new research-based coaching program that helps couples Break Free from Porn, and Reignite the Love in their marriage. 


Most counselors treat porn addiction by focusing exclusively on the husband’s behavior. In a long, time-consuming process, the husband may get off pornography, but the marriage is still severely damaged.

 

My Break Free from Porn Coaching Program, addresses both the porn addiction and marital intimacy, all within a short 90 days.

For the Husband...

Here are the cold hard facts. You are involved with porn. It might feel good. It might give you the escape and release you need. But... you are hurting yourself. Porn is known to give men ED and impotence. The brain chemicals released when you watch porn are making you addicted to it. Porn forces unhealthy changes in your behaviors and beliefs about sex, women, and your wife. 


As bad as that is, the worst of all is...


You are hurting your wife more than you know. Porn is a form of emotional cheating. Your actions cause your wife great pain. Your behavior has changed, and you probably don't even know it. Do you fully understand what you are doing to her physically? Do you understand the stress your porn watching is causing her? Your actions provide her with thoughts of betrayal, insecurity, and doubt.

Happy Couple

56% of divorces cite porn as a major reason. The average contested divorce costs $10,500. Are you willing to risk it?


You simply cannot say you love your wife and watch porn at the same time. You are fooling yourself if you try.


There is good news!


You can be free from porn. You can mend things with your wife. You can feel respect, admiration, and real love from of your wife. 


Your marriage can actually be better than it ever was!


It takes a 100% commitment from you AND your wife to help you break free from porn and reignite the love in your marriage.


Here is the bottom line. You messed up. Your reason for messing up is important and will be addressed. You cannot just break free from porn and expect the marriage to be great. There were and are problems in the marriage that must be addressed. 


Your wife needs you.

She needs to see a 100% commitment from you.

You MUST stop porn and be a great husband.

You do that, and she can be a great wife!

Break Free from Porn
and Reignite the Love in Your Marriage!

The Break Free from Porn Coaching Program is by application only.

Both husband and wife need to complete the application form individually.

What Happens In the Dual Track Coaching Program?

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Throughout the Break Free from Porn track, the husband will learn and practice:

  • The damage he caused his wife, and why he MUST stop viewing porn.
  • The #1 reason why porn is hard to overcome.
  • 6 proven steps to eliminating the desire to view porn.
  • Why trying to quit “cold-turkey” doesn’t work.
  • 10 urge-busters.
  • How to re-program your brain to avoid common triggers.
  • Fall in true love with your wife again – mind and body.
  • What to do when unexpected urges and triggers happen – because they will!
  • What he should NEVER do during the 90-day program.
  • Discover the real reason why he started watching porn.

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Throughout the Reignite the Love track BOTH husband and wife will discover:

  • Why the 6 human and 10 emotional needs MUST be met in order to have a happy marriage.
  • How the 80/20 principle hurt your marriage.
  • The #1 key to being happy while you work on your marriage.
  • 2 easy changes you can start making today that helps avoid conflict and arguments.
  • The 10 best practices of happily married couples.
  • If she starts to get angry, what he needs to do first!
  • How he needs to consistently show love to his wife.
  • How she needs to consistently show respect to her husband.
  • If you have a hard time forgiving, here’s the #1 thing to do.
  • When you both start practicing CANI, the marriage can weather great storms.

FAQs

Does this program require both husband and wife to participate?

Is this a Christian or faith-based program?

Why does the program appear to cost so much?

Do we have to do this program for 12 straight weeks?

Do you guarantee the program will work?

Is Covenant Eyes required?

Break Free from Porn and Reignite the Love in Your Marriage!

The Break Free from Porn Coaching Program is by application only.

Both husband and wife need to complete the application form individually.

Limited Availability

Mark only brings on 10 new clients each month. Since the Break Free from Porn program spans across 3 months, he is limited in how many clients he can serve. If you are ready to transform your marriage now, Mark recommends that you click on the Apply Now button. Both husband and wife, individually, need to complete the application form.


Once he receive both forms, he selects only the couples he believes are most determined to succeed. Once chosen, Mark emails both partners with a link to his calendar page where you schedule a FREE 1-hour coaching call. In this call, he’ll discuss your situation, the program, and go through a couple of exercises where you can start to see how the program works. 

Happy Marriage

Don't Put It Off Any Longer!
Break Free from Porn
and Reignite the Love in Your Marriage!

The Break Free from Porn Coaching Program is by application only.

Both husband and wife need to complete the application form individually.

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